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Re: female Brothers

daemon@ATHENA.MIT.EDU (Amanda Dickerson)
Mon Oct 3 17:10:47 1994

Date:         Mon, 3 Oct 1994 16:59:22 -0400
Reply-To: Amanda Dickerson <axd19@po.CWRU.Edu>
From: Amanda Dickerson <axd19@po.CWRU.Edu>
To: Multiple recipients of list APO-L <APO-L%PURCCVM.BITNET@mitvma.mit.edu>

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>I don't know why we refer to females as "brothers."
>

[....]

>What do the female members prefer?  I hate offending people.
>




Being a female member, I prefer to be called a brother.



As for why....

>From Webster....

fraternity - 1: a group of people associated or formally
organized for a common purpose,interest, or pleasure: as
a: a fraternal order  {.....} 2:  the quality or state of
being brothers : Brotherliness .....

brother - [.....]  4:  one related to another by common
ties or interests  .....


We are a fraternity, not a sorority, a fraority, a sorternity
or any of the other PC terms people have tried to come up
with in the past, so we are brothers. To me, to say that
I am a sister is to differentiate me from the rest of the
members.  We are all the same in this fraternity, all brothers.



amanda

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